I had a desire to have a 2nd, so I did, and was happy. Then I had a desire to have a 3rd, so I did, and then I was content and felt ‘done’ and didn’t continue having any desires to have more kids, so I figured that those ‘desires’ must have known what they were talking about.
I don’t actually like having 3 kids. It’s too much in every way. Nothing against my 3rd child though; it’s just about having 3 kids. If I had my time again I’d stick to 2.
So, I recommend listening to your head and your sensible decision making, rather than those bloody desires. They don’t know what they’re talking about! 😆