Hi I’m starting to think about leaving my husband. Not sure where to start with all the practicalities and wondering if anyone knows any great websites, forums, resources etc. we have a mortgage, joint finances and kids.

Scott Pape the Barefoot Investor is always recommending women call ‘1800 007 007 and ask for a referral to a free financial counsellor in your area’ in his column.

Another to say sorry. This stuff is hard. I remember from the eb boards making sure you have copies of all the banking details, mortgage stuff etc. While it often starts out civil it can turn quickly. (Not always though… but probably best to be prepared.)

I’ve started listening to this podcast which seems pretty good https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-split/

Sorry to hear you are in this situation. Years ago on EB, the was a great posted thread with what to do - think it disappeared when the member who started the thread had their account deleted. Definitely get copies of all financial data, and scan & upload to the cloud. Store a hardcopy with family or a friend. See if you can get a PO box, and start directing all your mail to there - ie change the addresses with companies only you are listed on. eg superannuation account. Open a bank account and start putting small amounts into it - withdraw extra when you do the grocery shop.

PP is right. Also contact Centrelink and see what you may be eligible for ( even if you are ok financially now - you may need more help with childcare etc). Once you have made up your mind give Centrelink that date as they will count from that day on. Think about your children and the best arrangements that would suit everyone. Good luck

Separation and divorce - looking for advice and info

ambellina

Hi I’m starting to think about leaving my husband. Not sure where to start with all the practicaliti...