Interesting you posted this, I was thinking about it the other day too.
I use to think it was really sweet, a rainbow family, aww. But then, the particular family I was thinking of had twins and two dad’s conceived and born in the USA (I think), and then I got quite cranky. Imagine deliberately transferring two (or more) embryos into a woman, because you didn’t want to have to do it again. And you wanted to increase your odds, all while lowering her odds and increasing the risk to her not to mention permanently changing her body 🤬 there’s the rage back again.
Having done plenty of IVF myself and got twins out of it, I feel that we were incredibly lucky, but it certainly changed my body and I didn’t have to give them away.