Not really actually! He went to fix up his parents place with his dad, thinking it would be a way to spend quality time with his dad (who obviously is prioritised over his children because we did NOT get any say in the timing of this), and then his dad fucked off to see his friend and he was left there painting till midnight.
So I guess that maybe adds to the guilt, but the thing is that his whole not being there for us and being ‘self’ sacrificing (I see it as being his family sacrificing) for others is a recurring pattern, and I’m over it. I seem to get no say in it, he just declares that he’s going to be away those two days and I have to scramble around figuring out how to make Easter special minus a parent.
So I guess it’s vengeful, but a part of me wants to say “oh soz, does it suck being left holding the ball while your partner does whatever the fuck they want whenever the fuck they want?” and the other part goes “you’re being mean”