I don’t know how to edit titles but that’s obv meant to say If not Of.
For some more navel gazing (TLDR: bi woman’s male partner gives her a short haircut)
‘ One of the many things this pandemic has robbed us of is the opportunity to present ourselves as complex, evolving individuals. Through Zoom screens and absence, we are collapsed.
But this haircut was rejuvenating, dimensionalizing. It made me feel multifaceted and animated, pulling me out of my planar state as a flat form glued to the floor and giving me depth and permission to take up space—a prismatic affirmation of my bisexuality. It was empowering to reclaim agency when our lives are otherwise out of our control. It felt dramatic and bold when every day is Blursday. Liberating when I’d felt trapped. When I looked in the mirror of my tiny apartment bathroom, I saw the haircut I was always meant to have.’
Got the article off this twitter thread - comments are heartening.